
I recently hit 40. Heard a lot about how great the 30s was but was not completely sold, still struggling with who I was and what I wanted, and not completely comfortable in my own skin. 40 is when I started accepting my quirkiness and my far less than perfect life. 40 is when I realized that taking care of my mind and spirit was just as important as making sure the bills got paid. 40 is when I really started listening to myself. It’s when I realized we need to honor it all. That it all matters, and nothing is an accident, and there is no need to apologize. For me, that meant I am a lawyer and now I am also a photographer and I will not make myself choose. I think my sister, pictured here, a few years my senior, has known this for a while. She enjoys a flexible teaching career, a my-kids-are-not-babies-anymore gym fit body and a busy social life. She is an academic, a master of interior design, and has always had more close girlfriends than anyone I have ever known. Comfortable with who she is and respectful of her wants and needs. This is my sister, honoring it all.
Well said…makes me proud to be 40 and to be your friend
So perfectly said, and such truth. <3
Gorgeous shot!
Such a great sentiment. Mel looks stunning as do you in all of the photos I have seen. Just read your blog. You truly are an amazing woman and what a gifted photographer. So envious. I would love to be a photographer, but am not good at all. LOL. Miss you Carrie.